I am not 100% sure how I came upon Woman Wielding Words, Lisa Kramer’s blog, but I am glad I did. (PS: she thinks it was something to do with LinkedIn.)
I found a kindred spirit, overall, in what she has written, and this guest post only cements that.
It is a pleasure to introduce her to you here.
The Creativity Series: Guest Post
Creativity isn’t About Being Perfect, It’s About Living Life with Passion: Lisa Kramer
No matter where I am or what I am doing, one statement crushes me, causing me to want to scream.
What is this horrific statement?
“I am not creative.”
I hear it all the time; in college classrooms, in discussions with friends, and perhaps most painfully out of the mouths of children. How could a child not be creative? Or perhaps I should ask, what does society do to suck the creativity out of children, or their belief in their ability to create?
In my experience, everybody is creative, but there comes a point where creativity is frowned upon as something less worthy or less “normal” in some way. That is a loss. If you look at the dictionary definition of creativity, you will find the following:
. . . the ability to transcend traditional ideas, rules, patterns, relationships, or the like, and to create meaningful new ideas, forms, methods, interpretations, etc.; originality, progressiveness, or imagination (dictionary.com)
How could anybody not welcome the “ability . . . to create meaningful new ideas . . .etc.”? Why is creativity something that society seems to fear rather than embrace?
I don’t have the answers, but I fear for a world that stifles creativity in children at such a young age, and a society that seems to be trying, on a daily basis, to silence anyone who thinks outside of a restrictive social norm. I’m sure some might say that I exaggerate, and that children lose their creativity as a natural result of getting older. However, the problem is not simply an issue of growing up.
Several years ago, at a week-long puppet-making workshop for grades K-6, I offered different puppets for different age groups. For the Kindergarten and First graders I decided to make fish puppets, based on The Rainbow Fish. The Kindergarteners took their instructions and ran away with it, adding color and scales, eyes and glitter in any chaotic fashion that suited their fancy. It was a fast-paced burst of creative energy, and I loved the result especially the fish with two eyes one side of its head and thee on the other.
In the first grade, things were different. Many of the kids censored their creative impulses. If they couldn’t do it “right” or make the “perfect” fish, they wanted either my assistant or I to do it for them. (We didn’t, of course).
In Being Perfect, Anna Quindlen writes that “being perfect [is like] carrying a backpack filled with bricks every single day.” (11) Where do we pick up and fill that backpack? What happens between kindergarten and 1st grade that allows us to catch this terrible disease? Perfectionism is, in many ways, the enemy of creativity. I am not saying we can’t strive for perfection in our creative endeavors, but that pursuing perfection often paralyzes our ability to create.
Often the people who say, “I’m not creative” are also the ones who slog their way through life just doing what they have to do following all the rules as they go. Perhaps this comes from a narrow definition of what it means to be creative. Creativity is not limited to those people who can put words on a page, or images on a canvas, or write music or whatever you think of as creative. Everything we do involves a creative choice, especially if we take even the tiniest step away from the “rules”: how we dress, how we set up our desk, how we cook our food, how we decorate our house, even how we sign our names involves creative choices.
Imagine a work place where everything must be done in one way, and one way only. Your office or cubicle has to be decorated under precise parameters. Every word you write, whether a memo or an e-mail must be worded following protocol. Imagine yourself as a worker in this place, who suddenly realizes that there is a better and more productive way to accomplish XYZ, but you do not speak up because it doesn’t follow the proscribed rules of the company. Slowly you learn to stifle those creative thoughts, and become a corporate drone. Life turns gray.
I am not saying that all corporations suck creativity out of every individual. I’m not even saying that people who don’t think they are creative can’t enjoy life. Instead, I argue that in order to make change and embrace life, everything we do must incorporate creativity. If we lose the creative aspects of ourselves, then what do we have? So my response to a person who says, “I’m not creative” is, “yes you are, you just don’t see it.” And my response to the question “Why creativity?” is simply, “Life is creative.”
Lisa A. Kramer is a freelance theatre director, educator, and writer. After graduating from Smith College with a double major in Theatre and English Language & Literature she spent some time teaching English conversation in Japan. This led her to expanding her understanding of theatre and pursuing and MFA in directing from the University of Hawai’i, Manoa as well as a Ph.D. in Theatre for Youth from Arizona State University. She enjoys directing theatre for all ages, developing new works, incorporating non-western techniques in productions, and exploring cultural and social issues through theatre. She hopes to develop shows using multiple cultures, languages, and generations to help build bridges.”




Nov 28, 2011 @ 05:32:30
I have an example of kindergarten happy turning to first grade bricks.
Youngest child: Teacher pinned a naughty badge on his shirt, (on the first day of school), and made him wear it all through the day and then on the bus home to me because he “sang in the bathroom”. It said it in big red letters on his badge.
My favorite quote for creativity:
“Every creative act involves… a new innocence of perception, liberated from the cataract of accepted belief.” Arthur Koestler
Maybe if we made everyone sing it in the bathroom it’d catch on?
Nov 28, 2011 @ 18:11:42
Maureen..I hope you went in and kicked that asshat of a teacher a new one. Ye gods what is wrong with some of them?
Nov 28, 2011 @ 07:26:28
That makes my heart hurt. I am going to declare today as singing in the bathroom day for all family members. It has begun, with my husband shaving right now.
I love that quote.
Thanks for the comment.
Lisa
Nov 28, 2011 @ 10:58:31
Awww! Yes! Going to go sing in the bathroom right now!
You’re awesome Lisa! I’ll write a few refrains just for you!
Nov 28, 2011 @ 15:54:32
I hope you do. Sarah just got home from school, went to the bathroom and sang at the top of her lungs. I couldn’t help but smile.
Nov 28, 2011 @ 07:32:57
Stuart, thank you for including me in this wonderful series.
Lisa
Nov 28, 2011 @ 18:29:44
Lisa…you are most welcome. I was away, but I’m home now and will push this out.
Nov 29, 2011 @ 06:48:43
…and, anytime you want to come back here, just say the word
Nov 29, 2011 @ 07:14:38
Anytime! I love the conversations you have over here.
Nov 28, 2011 @ 07:43:06
Great post. Reminds me of this one job I worked at. You were either a designer aka one of the “creative people” or not. I was there as a programmer but I would frequently have managers say “Wow. Its almost like you’re one of the Creative People”. They’d say it like it was a compliment but it just cemented that they were a bunch of dopes in my opinion. All of us had potential to be creative but by throwing out labels all they were doing was helping to stifle it.
Nov 28, 2011 @ 09:26:29
Thanks, Rick. So much of our lives and opinions of ourselves come down to labels. If we could all just be part of a team, each contributing to our strengths, I think we could accomplish so much more rather than barricading ourselves behind labels.
Lisa
Nov 28, 2011 @ 08:03:00
Great post, Lisa. It is so sad to think that self-consciousness and perfectionism can creep into creativity as early as 1st grade. No wonder my university students have struggled. Thanks for this helpful insight into the creative process.
Kathy
Nov 28, 2011 @ 19:48:29
LOL Kathy, I can’t help but think that “self-consciousness and perfectionism” are playing with you at the moment, and are part of the problem with your own struggle today.
Lisa
Nov 28, 2011 @ 08:06:57
I agree, we should all have the opprutunity to use our imagination and create and not be scared we won’t be good enough!
Nov 30, 2011 @ 17:42:17
It’s so much of what is “accepted” as GOOD that kills creativity. Thanks miss vix
Nov 28, 2011 @ 20:00:00
Bravo, Lisa. Well-done post. My brother was always discouraged in art class in high school because he didn’t follow the rules. He is now an engineer AND an artist!
Nov 29, 2011 @ 07:04:15
Talent and creativity live in your family obviously.
Nov 28, 2011 @ 22:04:01
Often I think we don’t see our own creativity for the reasons relating to upbringing or education that you mention here. We also our own worst judge. It’s like the comment I’ve often seen made on my memoir blog that no one would want to read about the commenter’s life because it’s boring–boring to them maybe but we the readers might be interested.
Kids should be allowed to let their creativity flourish and the educational system should be there to provide guidance and encouragement and to add to the student’s bank of knowledge. It should not coerce them into conforming to a bland future of not using their creative energies.
Lee
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Nov 29, 2011 @ 07:07:39
It’s funny Lee, yesterday I was struggling with my own brain. I kept feeling I have no story to tell, who would want to read anything about me. It just proves that even the most creative people can have moments of fear which block creativity, and without encouragement that creativity will remain blocked. That is sad for two reasons. First the world never benefits from that person’s burst of creative energy. And second, living trapped in that fear and the feeling it creates in you, is a horrible way to live.
Thanks for reading,
Lisa
Nov 28, 2011 @ 23:42:34
Ah,this reminds me of one of my favorite cartoons- published in a very techy journal (ok, more like a rag, which listed the table of contents of every technical journal published each week)- Current Contents.
There was a sign in front of this big modern building… The BioTech Corp. Below it, the sign stated… A We Will Make You Equal Employer….
Nov 29, 2011 @ 07:09:34
interesting. I wonder what would happen if all abilities were treated as equal.
Nov 29, 2011 @ 01:25:36
Wonderful piece, creativity is every where in our lives or anyway it is in mine….I’ll be off to sing in the bathroom now..
Nov 29, 2011 @ 07:10:52
Yay, Jan. Join the singing in the bathroom choir. Our bathrooms rang with all kinds of songs yesterday and it was joyous.
Nov 29, 2011 @ 02:53:35
Creativity lives within us and it is up to us bring it alive.. Great post
Nov 29, 2011 @ 07:12:35
Thank you Savira. It is so sad how often we never nurture the creative within us, either through our own fears or because nobody gives us the freedom to do that. So the creativity never comes to life, and the world lacks.
Lisa
Nov 29, 2011 @ 06:22:20
We must overcome uncreativity and do anything that is possible. Lets cut out the word impossible from the dictonary and replace it with I’m possible!!
Lawrence Bergfeld
Nov 29, 2011 @ 06:23:21
We must overcome uncreativity and do anything that is possible. Lets cut out the word impossible from the dictonary and replace it with I’m possible!!
Lawrence Bergfeld
Nov 29, 2011 @ 07:13:24
I’m possible, Lawrence! I’m possible!
Love it. Thanks for reading.
Nov 29, 2011 @ 22:40:12
Lisa, you’ve given me an eyeopener putting it this way. I have always chalked up people who say they’re not creative with people like me, who say we’re not athletic. I thought of it as a matter of degree. I can jog a block if necessary, or throw a ball, but almost everybody can do it better than I can. I suppose that comparative is part of the problem.
You’re absolutely right that there is creativity in all moments of our lives. Some of us will make more divergent choices than others, but it’s there for us all to enjoy!
Thanks for hosting, Stuart!
Nov 29, 2011 @ 22:53:04
You are most welcome.
Nov 30, 2011 @ 07:42:14
Rose, I think it is all a matter of degrees and perception. We can’t all be the best athletes, nor can we all be the most talented singers or musicians or whatever. But, we all have the ability to do a little bit of each. Just as sports require practice and the development of muscles, so does creativity. With practice we all can be athletes and we all can be creative people. Does that make sense?
Nov 30, 2011 @ 11:26:43
It absolutely makes sense and gives me a primer to encourage my non-existant children to have fun with it always!
Nov 30, 2011 @ 07:56:52
Folks, I’ve said it here many times, in many different posts: you can do creative things; don’t compare to anyone else and don’t let anyone compare/judge you against anyone else. We all CAN sing, dance, paint, act, etc…there is the basic/primative just doing it for doing it sake, and then you jfind those who enjoy it enough to practice and perfect….and to me…it’s all good.
DO ART, in any discipline, if it brings you joy in doing so.
Thank you Lisa. Great post/great discussions
Nov 30, 2011 @ 11:29:30
You’re right, comparing is a huge problem and a difficult habit to get out of. But we ALL can.
Nov 30, 2011 @ 17:43:54
YAY ROSE!!! Go DO!!! It is a big problem, and we all do it at one point or the other